The Virginian-Pilot
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Kimberly Perez, groggy from sleep, answered her doorbell at 3:15 a.m. and stared her would-be assassin in the eyes.
"May I help you?" she asked politely, thinking it was someone in trouble.
The man with the baseball cap began shuffling his feet, as if unsure of himself. Perez recalls exactly what he said next:
"I have some information you might want to know. Someone wants to kill you or someone in your family."
Whatever sleep may have been left in Perez quickly disappeared.
She blurted, "You have the wrong house or you got the wrong girl."
Then he said her name and told her which massage therapist and gym she frequents.
Sufficiently frightened, Perez raised her arm and slid her hand on top of the alarm system plate next to the door. Even though she knew it wasn't operating, her first instinct was to try to scare him.
The man said something vague about being there to help her and then turned and left.
The bizarre events that unfolded from there have since led to the arrests and convictions of the man at her door, a colleague of Perez's at Tidewater Community College, and a third man, all linked to a murder-for-hire plot against Perez.
For the first time outside of court appearances, Perez is speaking publicly about her ordeal with the hope that she can prevent it from happening to someone else. She also recently filed a multimillion-dollar lawsuit against TCC officials who she says ignored her complaints.
The daughter of a military mom, Perez, now 36, never really had a permanent home growing up. She lived up and down the East Coast, and after graduating from college and getting a master's degree, she worked in Japan, England and Turkey. She married a Turkish man, but that didn't work out.
She said she decided to live in Virginia Beach by closing her eyes and pointing at a map. She's been a TCC professor for about eight years.
Her ordeal began in February 2006 at a dinner celebrating the birthday of Perez's supervisor at TCC, Jay A. Glosser. Both taught classes in information systems technology.
Until that dinner, Perez said she believed she had a strictly platonic, friendly and professional relationship with Glosser, who was married and had children. But that night, Glosser reached his hand under the table and placed it on Perez's knee.
Perez made it clear to Glosser that she had no romantic feelings for him and that his behavior was inappropriate. He apologized profusely, she said, and he assured her it would not happen again.
A month later, while at dinner across the street from the downtown Norfolk campus, Glosser professed his love for Perez and told her he was leaving his wife. He asked her if she was dating anyone.
"I told him that made me uncomfortable," she said. She demanded that he cease such talk. Again, he promised he would.
But he didn't.
Perez would soon learn that Glosser knew about her medical appointments, her massage schedule and the friends she kept outside of work. He left her notes and flowers and messages on her answering machine. She says she believed he was stalking her.
"I can't sleep thinking about you," he said in one phone message, left after midnight on April 8, 2006.
Two days later, Perez reported the incidents to her dean. She said she heard nothing back.
On April 26, 2006, Jimmy Peterson, a TCC dean at the time, called Perez into his office to explain a print-out of a MySpace page that had her photo and a sexually explicit poem on it. Peterson told her Glosser had been given the print-out by a student, who claimed to have found it in a computer lab, she said.
She accused Glosser of fabricating the page and again explained the continuing sexual harassment. Around that time, Perez also notified another dean, Joanne Diddlemeyer, and college Provost Quintin Bullock of the ongoing problems.
In the meantime, Perez said she had discovered that Glosser had been entering her office and rifling through her mail.
On May 4, 2006, Perez filed a written sexual harassment complaint with the college. A week later, she told the school officials that she no longer felt safe around Glosser. Through that month, she said the school did nothing to help her.
Then came the morning of June 1, 2006.
After the sun came up, it occurred to Perez that there might be a connection between the man who came to her door in the dark and Glosser. Her fears were confirmed when the man called her at 10:26 a.m., seven hours after appearing at her doorstep.
He told her he was hired to kill her. But he was reluctant, he told her, because he didn't "do women and children," Perez recalled him saying. He told her if she paid him $10,000 he wouldn't kill her.
The same day, she reported the death threat to Diddlemeyer, who at the time was acting provost. She also reported it to police and hired a private investigator.
Over the next several days, Perez received more calls from the hit man. In one call, he told her he was connected to the Ku Klux Klan and that if he didn't kill her, "some skinheads would come in from Alabama to do it," she recalled him saying. He also informed her during one of the calls that she needed to drop the sexual harassment complaint, providing solid proof for her that Glosser was behind the plot.
She e-mailed Diddlemeyer, stating she could not come to campus for fear of her life. Despite her fears, on June 5, 2006, Diddlemeyer ordered Perez to report to campus for student labs.
The next day, the private investigator called the Virginia State Police and reported the murder plot. Within two hours, detectives were at her house planning a sting operation.
Perez called the hit man and arranged a meeting. She talked him down to $5,000 and agreed to provide a signed statement retracting the sexual harassment complaint. She told him she would place the items in a P.F. Chang's takeout bag and drop it at an agreed-upon location.
She got him to agree to let her bring along a female companion, but he insisted there be no guns.
"I don't want it to be a gun fight," he told her.
"I was terrified," she said. She recalled thinking, "Of all the things I've done in my life, how did I end up here?"
The companion was actually an undercover trooper. As Perez drove to the location, the hit man was talking to her on a cell phone, changing the location two or three times. The trooper, meanwhile, was on a walkie-talkie providing their constant location to other troopers following in unmarked cars.
They ended up at a parking lot near Sentara Leigh Hospital on Kempsville Road.
He yelled into the phone, "Throw the bag out the window." She did, and sped off.
As the hit man pulled up to snatch the bag, which was filled with crumpled newspapers, troopers were immediately on top of him, with shotguns at his head.
The hit man identified himself as F. Devin Scott, a truck driver in his mid-30s who told the troopers that his boss, Raymond Groves, hired him to carry out the plot. Scott agreed to tape a phone call to Groves, which led to incriminating statements and Groves' arrest. Groves then agreed to record phone calls to Glosser, and more incriminating statements were made.
Scott and Groves were later convicted in Virginia Beach Circuit Court. Scott is serving seven years in prison, and Groves is serving eight years. Glosser entered an Alford plea, in which he didn't admit guilt but agreed that the prosecutors had enough evidence to find him guilty beyond a reasonable doubt. He has since appealed.
The lawsuit filed by Perez is pending in U.S. District Court. TCC has not yet filed a response and has declined to comment on the matter.
Perez, meanwhile, is left living a life, she says, filled with fears and anxiety.
"I can't got to the store without worrying that someone is following me," she said. "It's a different life."
But she's grateful to the troopers who helped her and her students and colleagues who supported her throughout.
"I don't know how I did it. I know I had a guardian angel," she said. "Internal fortitude comes from somewhere. You just do what you have to do."
Tim McGlone, (757) 446-2343, tim.mcglone@pilotonline.com

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Nothing I read indicated an affair or dinner alone
And assuming that this professor followed the proper procedures in filing a sexual harrassment complaint AND assuming that nothing was done by TCC officials, as she has said, then yes, she has options for recourse. I would certainly hope, for her own sake, that after the first incident with the hand on the knee, this dinner, "a month later, while at dinner" was a group dinner or a working dinner. Sexual harassment policies are in place to protect employees (both male and female) and I would expect that they warrant immediate investigation. Based on the story, the only red flag I see that may hinder any investigation is why she waited 3 months to file a sexual harassment complaint.
How ignorant....are some people?
My GOD! doesnt anyone care about anyone anymore? This woman is crying for help and her employer wont help her? Although it happens there ARE people out there with morals and they should not be harassed because of it. I would have sued that TCC college also...no wonder I get the willies passing by that school. I live near there and now I most certainly will NOT EVER enroll there with that kind of news going on there much less the Dean and Provost Dean allowing that sexual harassment and obviously insane behavior going on. I certainly hope they lose in court because they need to take a train up to the 21st century and check in people. Also, if I had ANY say over that school diddlemey and that other provost dean would be fired on the spot! No doubt about it. Im going to tell all my friends, customers and relatives not to attend TCC!!!
ironic
And the other popular story in the Pilot is about the right to carry guns. I think this story is living proof citizens need guns to protect themselves.
She should get a full pension out of TCC for ruining her career. She should also sue the pants off of Glosser for the same thing. Too bad his family has to suffer thru this as well. Glosser was my computer teacher at Great Bridge High (not a lot of good press out of GBHS these days). I always thought he was kind of odd, guess my intuition proved me right.
Concerned about the turth
I have a question to everyone -- Who opens their door to a complete stranger at 3:15 AM and has a conversation with him. Then when he tells you about your life. Why not slam the door and call the police??? I raised my children to be smarter than this.
Concerned about the turth
shocked!
it is sad to know that as a student at TCC that this goes unnoticed!!! i hope this works out for her in the end! you do indeed deserve that!
reading this gave me chills!
Hmmmmm....
Out to dinner alone with a married man who has a family at home? Maybe she's learn a lesson. Sounds like she messed with the wrong people. As for suing TCC? Maybe they should have taken her complaint a little more seriously (unless of course they have the same question as I did as stated above) but they are not responsible for protecting her. The police are. Doesn't sound like this college professor is too bright. Maybe she needs to go back to the school of common sense. LEAVE MARRIED MEN ALONE!!
Payday!
Somebody is going to get a MIGHTY BIG PAYDAY and I think I know who it is!
Enjoy it-God knows you deserve it!
TCC's responsibility........
TCC's responsibility is to PROTECT employees according to EEOC/Dept. of Labor standards. By TCC grossly ignoring Perez's issue they were CONDONING that behavior and should be sued for sexual harassment and endagerment. Quite frankly....coming from a legal issue, TCC can be charged with attempted murder (murder-for-hire) also because they had "one of their own" as the offender and I'm sure if they wanted Perez dead they would've done so. Thank GOD for Perez's intellectual forte' and perserverance to keep pursuing this issue ... because if she ignored it like TCC Staff did.....she would NOT be here and we'd be attending her funeral. An I.T./PC Tech myself, Ms. Perez is very capable of diagnosing and fixing problems and investigations are a tool very well used and NEVER underestimate a PC Tech person...they will disect every problem and show you what the problems are. For Ms. Perez...I tell you this. NEVER let anyone steal your dream....go forth and conquer. I do hope you get every penny out of TCC for their gross negligence and I support you. (BHimchak@aol.com)
Lack of order
I never received a degree form there because of a snafu in their system. I was never added to a class I signed up for because of teacher error. I tried for weeks to get the instructor to add me to the roll. She in fact knew I was supposed to have been added. After 3.5 weeks they add me and tell me I have a test in two days. I tell them it is not possible and was forced to drop. I went through the proper channels to plead my case and was told they would be keeping the money and not allowing me to graduate. I offered the correspondence w/ my teacher to the provost who instructed me to contact several other people. They kept me chasing my tail for a couple of weeks. The provost instructed me not to file the paperwork formally as he would ignore it. I wrote the president several times and was ignored. I had meetings with department heads and the instructor and the same result. To this day I have all of the paperwork on file but it is not enough money to pursue a suit. The school ignores anything that makes waves or doessn't make them money.
Hostile workplace
The employer is obligated to provide a workplace that is not hostile. The article clearly describes a hostile workplace. Ms. Perez, from all accounts, followed the chain of command/grievance procedure correctly; she notified the right people.... who apparently did nothing. TCCs actions (or non-actions) are shameful, and appear to be a violation of Ms. Perez' rights as an employee, not to mention her rights as a human being.