Diary of a Madwoman

This madwoman, a 40-something mom of two children, is here to tell you a thing or two about life when you're an overweight, perimenopausal (she has pills for when she laughs too hard, cream for when hair grows where it shouldn’t and patches to prevent hot flashes and aggravation.) She’s claustrophobic, agoraphobic, insomniatic, diabetic, stubborn anxious, hypothyroid, chronic sinusitis, allergenic, Fibromyalgia, asthmatic, migraine queen with two kids (both teens, one with special needs), four INDOOR dogs, a Cockatoo, two ferrets, a husband and PMDD. Why tell you all of this? TO make you feel better of course!

How Rude!

My husband pointed out to me the “how rude” of today’s newspaper and how it’s happened to us many times.

“Beth Soliz rushed to her son’s school (he has cerebral palsy and is in a wheelchair) because he was having a seizure. She parked her van in a handicapped spot that had a ramp access space beside it, then watched in dismay as a car pulled into the marked slot. When Soliz told the driver she needed the space to load her sick son, the woman refused to move her car.”

My son use to go to Suburban Park Elementary and this was an everyday occurrence. People would see my son’s wheelchair, the wheelchair lift in the van and would refuse to move. Once, while I was attending a school function I had a severe asthma attack. People had blocked us in on 3 sides. They announced over the loud speaker for the vehicles to move and of course, not one person did. We had no choice but to wait, while I succeeded in almost dying. There was plenty of times when I would ask people to move, they wouldn’t. I’d call the police and they honestly did not care.

Even though it’s been three years now, I still drive by Suburban Park, daily, and it still irritates the hell out of me how people are still parking not only in the marked slots, but where the actual ramp is to get onto the sidewalk.

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Welcome to the 21st Century...

Welcome to the rude and boorish 21st Century, where good manners and basic consideration for others are archaic and frequently subject to ridicule. I shutter to think that if this is the way it now is in traditionally genteel Virginia what must it be like in in-your-face-since-day-one New York City? I weep for the future.

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