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'Guiding Light' says goodbye with final episode

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"I was really going to tell them off. I was so angry, but I guess there’s no use in getting mad," said Estelle Tighe, 84, of Norfolk, referring to CBS and its decision to cancel the show. Tighe began listening to "Guiding Light" with her grandmother from the start of its run in 1937. (Bill Tiernan | The Virginian-Pilot)


ON TV
“Guiding Light” airs, for the last time, at 3 p.m. today on CBS.

SHARE YOUR MEMORIES
Comment at the end of this story with your memories of "Guiding Light."

FROM LOCAL FANS

I was really going to tell them off. I was so angry, but I guess there’s no use in getting mad." Estelle Tighe, 84, of Norfolk, referring to CBS and its decision to cancel the show. Tighe began listening to “Guiding Light” with her grandmother from the start of its run in 1937.

I have loved with them, laughed with them, celebrated with them and cried with them through their own life events year after year. ... When it’s off, we will grieve and miss them.
- Celena Pope, 32, of Severn, N.C.

 

“I began watching the show when I was as young as I can possibly remember with my grandma and cousins ... that was close to 30 years ago. In the summer, we would do all of our chores in the morning and all be seated at exactly 3:00 pm so that we would not miss even a word spoken by our beloved characters. During the school year, we would all rush home to catch the last 30 minutes!

It didn't stop there. I actually planned my college classes around Guiding Light, and when I got my first job, do you know what I did? I arranged to go in very early and leave at 2:30 to get home to lose myself in my other home of Springfield. Even today, I have planned my own daughter's dance/gymnastics classes so that I can watch Guiding Light. I have estimated that I have spent over 6,700 hours of my life watching this show!

My entire family (including my husband) have been extremely supportive about my only "addiction." My husband even went with me twice to Kings Dominion just to go walk around all day talking to the cast of Guiding Light. ...

The day I found out that the cancellation was final (there had been rumors), I was in my office and began to weep. Everyone else in thought someone had died and rushed to console me. After I told them what happened, they laughed, but completely understood my reaction.

On September 18th, my Guiding Light will fade away. Without being too cliche, it will leave a terrible void in my life. ... Yes, I know it is just a soap opera. It is not real. The actors are paid to be exciting, angry, loving, tempting, happy etc., but through out the years it has also invoked feeling inside me of excitement, anger, love, temptation, happiness. It is a legacy passed down from my grandmother. I was looking forward to passing the love of GL down to my own daughter.

At times, I have actually felt like those characters are a part of me. I remember where I was when Reva drove off the bridge. I remember where I was when Tammy died in Jonathan's arms. I remember vividly the passion between Roger and Holly.

I am an aspiring author. My one great dream in life was to write for Guiding Light. I accept now that my dream will never come true, but I will hold on dearly to the memories of the greatest and longest running show ever in the history of television. I believe I will mourn the ending of Guidling Light very much the same way as I have mourned loved ones. All of us devoted fans will certainly go through a grieving period. Eventually the void will be filled, but the memories will never perish.

Rest in Peace Beloved Guiding Light...Rest in Peace.
- Crystal Altman

 

I first got hooked on Guiding Light in grade school, watching with my sister and our babysitter. I came back to it in college when I did not have afternoon classes, came back again as a working young adult in the age of the first VCRs, but gave it up finally after my kids were born. I just couldn't find the time to keep up with it anymore. I have not actively watched GL in over 9 years, I think. Still, I can go back to an episode today and see familiar characters, even if some of them were toddlers when I last saw them and now they have kids of their own a few scant years later!

I remember some characters vividly, and I remember the marital rape plotline (Holly and Roger) which was a TV first. I remember Charita Bauer ("Bert Bauer") bravely going through her real life diabetes treatments as her character faced the same issues on the screen. I remember being so sad when Michael Zaslow succumbed to ALS, and actually feeling angry at the show for keeping his thrillingly evil character alive with another actor - I thought they should have killed Roger off in tribute to his portrayer. When I would see "alums" from GL make it big (Sherry Stringfeld, Taye Diggs), I always cheered inside as if they were somehow family. I was saddened to hear it was going off the air - it was always something that I could count on coming back to years after not watching it. Now that chance is gone.

I understand why the "Light" is going out, but it makes me very sad, in a nostalgic way.
- Elena Baum

 

I watched the Guiding Light from 1983 until 2 years ago (24 years!) My college roommate at William and Mary and I got hooked and watched it every afternoon. We maintained our loyalty through grad school, jobs, and kids. We even went to the Guiding Light Fan Club Gala 3 years in a row at the Marriott Marquis in NYC. I did shots of JD with Kim Zimmer (Reva) and Robert Newman (Josh) and even got kissed on the cheek by Grant Aleksander (Phillip.) Michael O'Leary (Rick) and Frank (Frank Dicoupolos) are hilarious!!! My husband has a photo of himself and Cassie (Laura Wright) on his desk at work. I have been unable to watch it the past 2 years due to time constraints; additionally, the story line and the teenie-bopper characters disinterested me. I still love the Reva, Billy, Harlan, Josh, Vanessa, etc, era - I have some VCR tapes and memorabilia to share as well. ... The end of an era.|
- Katie Anderson

 

I have been watching Guiding Light since I was just a little girl. I am now a senior citizen and have enjoyed the program immensely. I wanted my wedding to rival Reva's. All the characters have become family to me. Guiding Light was a beacon when my days were hectic and chaotic. I could brew a pot of tea and relax for a while. My children used to nap during this time which made it more special.

When they became older, they would watch with me - milk and cookie time. I will be sobbing on the last day.
- Karen Renda


By April Phillips
Correspondent

The light from Springfield that has been a comforting beacon to millions of Americans goes out for good today. Local fans of "Guiding Light," the longest-running drama in television and radio history, are mourning the loss of characters they've known for decades.

"I'm so distressed," said Estelle Tighe, an 84-year-old Norfolk native who began listening to the show with her grandmother from the start of its run. "It feels like a part of my family has gone away."

Emotions are running high for fans of the series that was created by Irna Phillips and nurtured by Agnes Nixon - the queen of daytime drama who also created "All My Children" and "One Life to Live."

"Guiding Light" debuted on NBC radio in 1937 as a 15-minute serial, then moved to CBS television on June 30, 1952. In 1968, "GL" expanded to 30 minutes and, in 1977, became a full hour. Once there were a dozen or so daytime soaps on the TV networks - now there will be seven.

"GL's" loyal followers appreciate the show for the very reasons that many speculate younger viewers have tuned out.

" 'Guiding Light' has always been more realistic than any other soap," said 32-year-old Celena Pope of Severn, N.C. She said that although most people her age watch more sensational soaps, if they watch any at all, "Guiding Light's" traditional focus appeals to her.

" 'Guiding Light' reminds us every day that family is where the heart is, or where it should be," she said.

The family at the core of the show was the Bauers, but over the decades the Spaulding, Lewis and Cooper clans also have helped populate the mythical towns where the drama took place.

One Virginia Beach woman has a unique perspective on "GL" story lines and the risks they took. Gillian Spencer played Robin Lang Holden Fletcher on the series from 1964 to 1967. A stage actress, she was drawn to the fact that soaps were filmed live on stage. However, in her second year on the show, she was certain she was going to be fired.

"I was pregnant with my son Christopher," Spencer said. "They did not show pregnancy on television back then, but Agnes Nixon took a big chance and said, 'Let's write it in.' "

Naturally, the onscreen pregnancy didn't go smoothly. Spencer's character was in a tumultuous marriage to Paul, whose teenage son Johnny was a constant source of stress. (Step-parenting was another thorny issue the show tackled.) In the show, a pregnant Robin fell off a chair while cleaning Johnny's room and suffered a miscarriage. Depressed, she eventually threw herself in front of a speeding car and was killed instantly.

Spencer's character wasn't miraculously resurrected, a common device on the soaps, but she did continue to have a career acting in other daytime dramas.

Later, she went to the other side of the camera and worked as a writer for numerous soaps, including "GL."

Paul Lankford, 62, of Virginia Beach unabashedly professes his love for "Guiding Light," and he credits the show for helping shape his future career.

Growing up in Franklin, Lankford had a genetic condition that left him sapped of energy. Several times he was at death's door, and once he died on a surgeon's table but was brought back from the brink. Even when he was relatively healthy, he had to be careful because stress could cause his body to shut down.

He'd come home from school for lunch every day, and his mother made him lie down for a while before returning to class. Although his mother didn't watch, she had "GL" on in the living room where Lankford rested.

"The 'Guiding Light' came on at 12:45, and there were two boys on the show who were my age: Ed and Ricky Bauer - they're still there," he said.

Lankford said he thought that, being in a small town, everyone tried to keep up appearances and no one ever knew the details of other people's lives.

"It was just a facade," he said, "and I was intrigued because on the show, it was like real life and you could see what was really going on. As a child in a backwater town, we were always waiting for something to happen. We didn't know it was all going on around us behind closed doors."

As he became hooked on "Guiding Light," he also became engrossed in the world's great literature. When he wasn't watching the program, he was reading "Les Miserables" and "Wuthering Heights." As he went on to college and eventually became an award-winning high school English teacher, he realized that his favorite soap explored many of the same themes as great literary works. Today he will tune in for the last page, and he's happy with the way the writers, producers and actors have handled the final chapter.

"I realized this saga is ending, but it's almost like Dickens because they're tying all the loose ends together and bringing back old characters to provide closure."

Lankford may have bittersweet feelings about the end of "GL's" run, but others, like Tighe, are hopping mad.

"I was really going to tell them off," she said, referring to CBS and its decision to cancel the show. "I was so angry, but I guess there's no use in getting mad."

Tighe has lived through plenty of real-life drama, including sitting in the auditorium of Norfolk's Maury High School and listening to a radio broadcast of Franklin D. Roosevelt's declaration of war on Japan. And her parents woke her up in the middle of the night as the family barely escaped a hurricane bearing down on the Willoughby section of Norfolk.

Through it all, "Guiding Light" was a constant in her life, and she said she's not sure how to say goodbye to characters who feel like family.

When Pope went to college at East Carolina University, she immediately bonded with a dorm mate who was a "GL" fan. That connection became the impetus for a solid friendship.

Pope is also grieving the loss of characters she knows so well.

"I have loved with them, laughed with them, celebrated with them and cried with them through their own life events year after year. I have grown up with those characters, so it's very easy for us fans to feel as if we know them and think of them as part of our families. When it's off, we will grieve and miss them."

Lankford sounded wistful as he summed up his feelings about today's finale: "I will miss those characters, and I hope they all live happily ever after somewhere in Springfield."

 

April Phillips, apes1@cox.net



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Saying GoodBye to GL

As I watch these final minutes of GL, I feel like I have when I have read a great, all-absorbing, book. And I don't want it to end. Every minute is another page being turned..I want it to go on and on. I want to read that after the last page, there is announcement of sequels, or reunion show or continutation on another network! I don't want it to end.
I have never known life without GL in it. My earliest memories were of the 15min. shows around lunch time. My grade school was just a couple of blocks away and we were allowed to go home for lunch, and Mom always had 'her soaps' on. She told me how they had started on the radio and she had listened to them since they came on the air. She explained the history of the characters, and as I watched they became family members for me.
Well, it is official, the light is turned out. Was appropiate that the final scenes were at the lighthouse, with all it's history wrapped up with Reva and her Joshua, together again, driving off for another adventure. I an only wish and hope that perhaps a Lifetime movie will reunite these great characters, so that we can all see and experience the Light!

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