The Virginian-Pilot
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VIRGINIA BEACH
Five South Hampton Roads residents have killed a significant other before taking their own lives during the past three weeks, according to authorities, in an unusual run of murder-suicide cases.
While most local police departments don't track murder-suicide rates, representatives from local, state and national organizations said the recent spate is startling.
"That's astounding," said Kristen Rand, a legislative director who has overseen murder-suicide studies for the Violence Policy Center in Washington, D.C. "I mean, that would be a large number for an entire state the size of Virginia. So that is a very troubling number."
"It's alarming that we've had so many in the past week-and-a-half," said Gena Boyle of the Virginia Sexual and Domestic Violence Action Alliance in Richmond. There are typically about 15 murder-suicides in Virginia each year, said Boyle, the group's domestic violence advocacy coordinator. During all of 2010, only three murder-suicides were reported in The Virginian-Pilot.
The deaths have also come to the attention of staff at the Samaritan House in Virginia Beach, said Debbie Sanders, a victim advocate for the nonprofit. The organization offers a hotline, resources, shelter and counseling for victims of domestic violence.
"It's a huge concern for us," Sanders said. "This is exactly what we try to combat every day."
The most recent case was discovered Thursday morning when police found the bodies of David S. and Judith Osborne in their Timberlake home on Bark-leaf Drive in Virginia Beach. Police say David Osborne, 78, shot his 66-year-old wife and then himself. A dog was also injured.
David Osborne had driven buses for the school system for nearly 11 years, said Eileen Cox, a school division spokeswoman. He and his wife had adult children, police said.
Police in Virginia Beach, where three of the recent deaths occurred, say they don't suspect a trend or any connection among the cases. Chesapeake police did not respond to an email requesting comment.
Such cases tend to follow a predictable pattern, said Rand, of the Violence Policy Center.
About three of every four murder-suicide cases involve intimate partners, and 95 percent of the time the killer is male, according to the policy center's most recent study, based on a review of news clippings and published in 2008.
The crimes most frequently occur in the home with a gun, according to the study.
Recent events fit that mold, except that one occurred in a parking lot instead of a home, and one did not involve a gun.
The first occurred on March 21 in Chesapeake when a 52-year-old Norfolk police officer, Lt. William Mackenzie, took the life of his 55-year-old wife, Pat, before shooting himself, police said.
In their wake are questions.
"We have no reason, no motives," said Officer Jimmy Barnes, a Beach police spokesman.
A multitude of factors can contribute, including relationship problems, financial stress, substance abuse and undiagnosed depression, according to people who counter suicidal behavior and domestic violence.
"I think the copycat factor is very low in murder-suicides," said Rand. "It's mostly the result of personal circumstances.... Virtually always a man who's under a tremendous amount of stress that's either usually related to a domestic relationship or to financial problems."
Often there are signs, ranging from controlling behavior to verbal and physical abuse, said Sanders, of the Samaritan House. In one of the recent cases, the killer had been charged with assaulting his victim on several previous occasions.
"Domestic violence escalates," Sanders said. "Slaps become punches. Punches become broken bones, and people can get killed."
But sometimes there aren't signals. In several recent cases, including the one with the Norfolk police officer, neighbors, friends and colleagues were shocked because they saw no signs of trouble.
In murder-suicide crimes involving killers older than 55, which make up about a third of cases, health problems often play a role, according to the Violence Policy Center. It plans to release another report on murder-suicides nationwide later this year, Rand said.
"It's important for communities to look for the patterns in these incidents," she said. "People start to look at murder-suicide as an isolated event, but there are clear, identifiable patterns....
"These can be prevented."
Pilot writers Veronica Gonzalez and Patrick Wilson contributed to this report.
Kathy Adams, (757) 222-5155, kathy.adams@pilotonline.com

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Judges are too easy on abusers.
"In one of the recent cases, the killer had been charged with assaulting his victim on several previous occasions." Charged several times, but still free to kill her. Thank you judge, you assisted both murder and suicide, both a violation of the law.
Wake up Virginia. Anger Management does not work, it teaches abusers how to abuse more efficiently. Judges use it because their friends make money off the service.
People can't get help
I see the woman Debbie from Samaritan house discusses issues in this article. A a victim of abuse I called the Samaritan house numerous times asking for help. Each time I was told there was a waiting list and I just had to call every day to see "when" they may actually be able to help. I called for two months straight. No help. It's hard to get out of the situation. I personally don't want to be in it but when it comes to having a roof over my head for my child and I, and food to eat because he is the provider and I have no money...and the resources for help aren't available at the time...what choice do you have? You stay. Unfortunately, having something is better than being homeless and hungry..and you just have to suffer.
domesticviolence.org
I feel for the men, women and children who are constantly caught in these types of struggles. However, you can't tell me that there are never signs which foreshadow domestic abuse. Hindsight is 20/20, but I do think people too often put overlook them and/or turn to denial. Children who observe violence at home are prone to developmental disorders AND to commit domestic abuse themselves. There are people who can help, but you have to be willing to take those steps. Even if that means foregoing the lives of which you have grown accustom. No doubt this economy has weighed in on households and relationships. But domestic aggressors are not spawned over night and are not always the husband/boyfriend. Check out domesticviolence.org for more info.
guns are the problem
You are right--guns are the problem. Let's outlaw them so that knives, axes, and rope can be used instead.
Murder-suicides are underreported
The proliferation of murder-suicides is hardly shocking. In attempting to analyze these tragedies, we are ignoring the elephant in the room....when firearms are present in the home, a domestic disturbance can easily turn tragic! Most perpetrators are males with guns. Booze, depression, passion, and illness add to an unstable situation.
It has been almost 4 years since the VT massacre where a mentally unstable young man killed 32 victims before turning one of his guns on himself in his public suicide. Not much has changed since then.
Policymakers have turned a deaf ear to prevention and average citizens forget that a gun kept for protection is more likely to be used in a suicide, accident, or murder of loved one than against an intruder.
To study this issue
To study this issue then coincidental factors need to be considered to see if they are statistically significant. Gun ownership is one factor, obviously, and that itself begs to determine what other coincidental factors relate to gun ownership. Lifestyle instability is probably at the top of the list (pure speculation here) and this includes partner instability and multiple failed relationships, financial instability, neighborhood instability, job instability, and the radically changing social norms can and do affect people. The classical standards of behavior found in most cultures historically have been hugely downgraded in middle class America, and movies television tend to "normalize" the new standards.
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If you have a gun at home
If you have a gun at home, you are five times more likely to die of a gun death. People get drunk or angry and having a gun at home makes it easier to kill yourself or others. America's gun fetish takes it toll. Over 1,000,000 Americans have been killed by guns since 1960.
Sorry I can't resist
Well I have 6 guns in my home does that make me 120% more likely to die of a gun related death. Remember guns don't kill people bullets do. One thing is for sure I will die of something I just hope it isn't boredom.
I usually don't comment on your
exaggerations and inanities bit they are getting tiresome. You really need to study facts more before commenting like this.