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By Jocelyn Syrstad
PORTSMOUTH
When Jerry Gaines walked into Grove Baptist Church on Saturday, he was greeted with a standing ovation.
The nearly 150 guests weren't there for a book signing for Gaines' newly released "40 Stories High," even though he was under that impression.
And they weren't there to celebrate that Gaines was the first black athlete to attend Virginia Tech on a full scholarship or that he was the first African American elected to the Virginia Tech Sports Hall of Fame.
They came to celebrate the man who changed the lives of many during his 39-year high school teaching and coaching career at Western Branch and Great Bridge in Chesapeake.
And when Gaines realized all those people were there simply to show their appreciation for him, he bowed his head and began to cry, covering his mouth in disbelief as the guests continued to applaud.
"He cared more about his students and coworkers than anyone I have ever crossed in my life," former student and athlete Jamie Dodd said. "He had a way of connecting with students and allowing them to do more than they ever thought was possible. He's truly unique."
Gaines, a 1967 graduate of Churchland High School, spent 29 years as a Spanish teacher at Western Branch before moving to Great Bridge as an assistant principal for the last 10 years of his career. He retired in November at the age of 61.
His book, which was released Saturday, is an accumulation of stories surrounding the lives of 40 of his students. The book describes the real life events that those individuals faced and how Gaines was there in the midst of it all.
Jerry Gaines' former students organized Saturday's tribute, which included speakers - friends, family, former students - a slideshow, and an opportunity for Gaines to mingle with everyone. Gaines never made a formal speech to the guests, but was available to talk casually afterwards.
Surrounded by his wife, Theresa, and his children, Gaines sat in the front row of the church and listened to nearly a dozen speakers share their appreciation for him.
Former students described how much he cared about them, saying Gaines would send letters to them - and continues to send them - decades after they graduated. He was invested in their well-being, not only during their four years of high school, but as long as they were willing to keep him a part of their lives.
Becky Neal, a 1987 graduate of Western Branch, called on him years later to pray with her and her family when her 18-month-old daughter had a tumor in her stomach.
Former athletes explained how he encouraged and pushed them to be better than they thought they could be.
In the late 1980s, Dodd had cut his right foot in half in a motorcycle accident and was told by orthopedic surgeons that he would never be able to play sports again. But he tried out for the cross-country team anyway.
With the help of Gaines, who constantly reminded that all things were possible, Dodd became the No. 1 runner on the team and earned a scholarship to Brevard College in North Carolina.
Not everyone is blessed to have a teacher they love and who loves them with all of his heart, Gaines' daughter Jina noted.
"My brother, what he's done is tremendous," Jack Gaines said. "He has encouraged so many throughout the years and has invested his time in people.
Because of that, he has a tremendous amount of wealth in his life."
Jocelyn Syrstad, 757-446-2039, jocelyn.syrstad@pilotonline.com

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He cares from the inside out!
Jerry Gaines is one of those rare people that you meet, who cares for the person from the inside out. He taught me this lesson, which I now use as a nurse. Sitting in his classroom 23 years ago I knew even then that I was experiencing greatness. He tailored his lessons to the needs of his students. One day, you might be learning how to conjugate verbs in Spanish, and the next you might have a much needed lesson in life. Taking that time out to show his students that he cared and respected them, Mr. Gaines earned the trust and respect that is so valuable to educators. Thank you Mr. Gaines for always making each student feel special. Thank you for being the safe haven so many of us needed. Thank you for being you! Hope to see you soon...Rio.
Jerry is truly Outstanding!
I have known Jerry for several years and let me tell you... he is truly an outstanding educator and individual. Jerry has always given his best to his students and his job.
I would like to congratulate you on a job well done. You deserve this and more for helping so many students become the best and to reach their full potential.
Enjoy your years of retirement!!May God Bless you and your family..
Craig
Jerry, your the best!
I enjoyed the article. If it wasn't for Jerry Gaines, I would not be teaching or coaching today. As mentioned in the article, he knew how to connect with students, student athletes, coaches, parents, teachers, staff, etc, etc, etc., I could go on and on. Jerry motivated so many of us. He never talked down to you. Always up beat and truly cared about your family. I miss him in our building. Just a great man. Thank you for getting me started (way back when), and I hope you enjoy the rest of your life. See you on the track! God bless you and your family.
Sincerely always,
Bill Volkman