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Virginia public weighs in on gay-adoption rules

Posted to: News Virginia

By Zinie Chen Sampson

RICHMOND

Hundreds of opponents and supporters weighed in on proposed regulations that would allow state-licensed groups to turn down prospective adoptive and foster parents because of their sexual orientation, as a public comment period drew to a close Tuesday.

The Virginia Board of Social Services opened the 30-day comment period last month after gay-rights advocates complained about new regulations that were approved in April without a ban on discrimination based on sexual orientation, political beliefs, age, physical disability and family status. The groups had said the board stripped the protections from the proposed regulations without much public notice, and that the board discussed the issue in closed session without opportunity for public consideration of it.

While Equality Virginia, the ACLU and other groups have said the state shouldn't allow discrimination, faith-based organizations have said it's unfair to force them to go against their religious beliefs.

Virginia allows married couples and single people to adopt or become foster parents, regardless of sexual orientation, but bars unmarried couples — gay or straight — from doing so. Then-Gov. Timothy Kaine's Democratic administration added the anti-discrimination provision in 2009, but it didn't become a flashpoint for public debate until this year, when conservative legislators and groups complained.

By mid-afternoon Tuesday, there were more than 2,300 comments, both in favor of and against the board's changes. More than 300 had been posted on the final day. The comment period was to close at midnight.

Catholic leaders and others weighed in to support the changes. Many posted comments of support for the removal of the discrimination ban under the identical headline "Preserve Religious Freedom" using template language the conservative Family Foundation posted on its website about the issue.

"I urge the Board to reject any regulation that would discriminate against faith-based child placement agencies," many statements said. "Faith-based child placement agencies have a right, under federal and state law, to make decisions that are consistent with their religious beliefs, including their beliefs about marriage and family life. This right must be respected and preserved."

Equality Virginia also has urged its supporters to speak out.

"The best interests of the child should be the sole factor in deciding whether a child should be placed with a prospective foster care or adoptive parent or parents," wrote a person identifying herself as a "lesbian adoptive mother of two."

The ACLU of Virginia said in its comments that it backs religious liberty and "strongly advocates for the right of each person to practice his or her religion consistent with the demands of his or her own conscience." But when a private or religiously affiliated group performs what's essentially a government function — including child placement and foster care — it cannot discriminate, the group said.

"Having chosen to act in the state's capacity, these agencies must be held to the same standard as if the state had itself performed the contracted activities," wrote Rebecca Glenberg, the group's legal director.

John Dougherty of the Virginia Home for Boys and Girls said he was speaking out against the proposed regulations because they would limit the number of families that can provide permanent and stable homes for children seeking adoption.

"The Commonwealth can no longer afford to protect the business and financial interests of religious organizations who purport a mission to serve Virginia's children and families while simultaneously putting barriers in place that prevent equal access for all Virginians," he wrote.

The agency staff will give the board a summary of the comments after the comment period ends, spokeswoman Eileen Guertler said Tuesday. The board isn't required to act on the regulations within a certain timeframe but it will get a status report on the issue at its October meeting, she said.

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not right for the kids

Its a confusing world and much stress on kids today, with bullying and harassment. Why make it worse by having 2 moms or 2 dads?

Its much more complicated than that........

I read the other day about 2 lesbian partners with a little boy that now wants to be woman, so the parents are fighting for this 8 year old boy's rights to have a sex change to become the woman like his mommy and mommy are........

Its, sick, wrong and should not be allowed.....kids don't know better, this is why they should have both parents to make an informed choice of who they truly want to emulate! Living in a totally gay agenda upbringing is unfair for any child. This is child abuse at best and criminal when taken to this level!

Damn the doctor that considers doing this!

http://gillreport.com/2011/09/lesbian-parents-seek-sex-change-for-their-8-year-old-boy/

DId you even watch the video???

It has nothing to do with the childs parents being lesbians.How do you explain the thousands of people who are transgendered and have heterosexual parents? These people will tell you that they knew at a very early aget hey were different. Kids know, even if they can't put a word to it. I grew up in a family with hetero parents, 4 sisters and 2 brothers, one of which is my twin. We were the typical family in the 60's, yet one of my sisters is gay and both my twin and I are as well while the siblings in between and after us are totally straight. I can tell your fom experiance I knew I was different at a very early age, and no matter how much my Dad tried to make my twin play with trucks or guns he resisted, I on the other hand love them.

cont...

the video says nothing about them seeking or fighting fora sex change it only says that they have put him on hormone blockers to allow him time to mature and decide what he wants to do...which is much better than letting his body masculinize now only to have pain and torment over a body he doesnt feel right in for several years and then have surgery.
There are plenty of gay parents out there that have raised fine upstanding citizens that are totally hetero. add to that the thousands of kids that are in foster care and considered unadoptable because of age or disabilities - they deserve forever homes and parents to..they dont care fo its two dads or moms. We adopt them while hetero people adopt from overseas and spend thousands on invetro.

Bigotry

This is incredible bigotry. Years ago, I knew two gay men in New York who adopted an HIV positive baby when no one else would. People who oppose gay rights should be ashamed of themselves.

It has happened a lot

There were several infants born in FL with HIV that a gay couple fostered (one had been a nurse in the ped HIV wing) The state alloweed them to foster but never would allow them to adopt. One of the boys tested HIV- at age 13 after years of treatment and the state put him up for adoption, still not allowing the men that had raised him since being an infant to adopt him. Kind of stupid that it was ok for them to raise him from infacy to 13 years of age, but couldnt formally become his parents, if you ask me.

I am not ashamed

I am not ashamed to be anti gay? To each his own I say, but don't infringe on my right to remain totally not gay either! Do you want a non gay partner, well I don't want a gay partner buddy! Live with it! Not everyone is going to swallow your gay agenda!

Can gays be good parents?

Bush: Cheney's Gay Daughter to be 'Fine Mom'

http://archive.newsmax.com/archives/ic/2006/12/15/125146.shtml

Yes, he said she would be a

Yes, he said she would be a "fine mom" the rest of the sentence was that he was characterized as sidestepping the question.
He also said she would :love this child a lot", gays could be "loving parents" and all "children deserve love". That's a far cry from endorsing gay adoption which is what you are trying to infer Bush did. He didn't.

you got all that from:

"Can gays be good parents?"

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