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Clutter cutters: Get your home organized

Posted to: Home Life Spotlight

It's not inches from around the waist that she plans to shed in 2012. It's cubic yards of excess from around the house.

Alice Gregory purchased her parents' Virginia Beach home five years ago and inherited generations of its contents. She's tried to clean out and organize to accommodate a clutter-free lifestyle and room for her growing home-based business.

"I needed an organized office," she said, but "I was getting lost in the memories."

In November, Gregory called upon professional organizer Nancy Watson of Harmony at Home Organizing, who took on the role of a home-fitness trainer of sorts. With a fresh, objective perspective Watson guided Gregory to prioritize, set specific goals and weigh the importance of "stuff" in the organizational process. Shaping up for 2012 has become a joy for Gregory since then.

For many reorganizing the home ranks high among New Year's resolutions.

"As life's events unfold, the complexity of our daily lives increases," Watson said.

The most common clutter people face is an over-accumulation of papers, clothing and sentimental items, which they often simply don't know how or how often to address, she said. Avoidance and procrastination may settle in, perpetuating a draining lifestyle marked by disorganization and mental chaos.

The overstuffed room over her garage shaped the point of most contention for Gregory.

"It was always there, nagging at the back of my mind," she said. "Things do have energy," she noted, adding that negative energy can "drag you down... you never feel like you can completely relax" with so much left undone.

Watson redirected Gregory's attention from the less-important guest bedroom she'd wrangled to the room over the garage, which, once complete, will serve as both storage for rarely used necessities and a resource library for business. Clearing and reorganizing took four people nine hours, but it has reduced her anxiety and increased energy, Gregory said.

First she had to learn what to keep, what to relinquish and how to store and organize those things she needed.

Letting go of heirlooms that her parents and grandparents loved"almost seemed like a betrayal, or a negation of who they were and how important they were in my life," she explained.

"With many clients, that is the fundamental issue, the stumbling block" to progress, Watson noted. The professional reorganizer re-framed the situation for Gregory, asking if her parents would have intended to pass on a burden.

Watson, whose certification includes a specialty in chronic disorganization, helped Gregory determine the sentimental, monetary and useful values of things and guided her in "transferring ownership" of those that didn't serve her, but might serve someone else via donation, auction or estate sale.

Value, Watson said, most often lies in sentiment and usefulness, not in the resale price.

The pair then assigned a home to every keeper and a system for maintaining a functional, productive and comfortable space.

Applying the same techniques during the course of everyday activities enables Gregory to gradually and logically systemize throughout the home.

To others embarking on re-organizing, Watson recommends determining what you need, what you love and what you can let go. Remove things from the home immediately after deciding to part with them. Office supplies may be donated to schools and charities; linens may be brought to animal shelters; some items may be sold. Take advantage of local shredding and electronics-recycling events, which she lists at her website, www.harmonyathomeorganizing.com.

If donating or recycling a computer, remove the hard drive first and destroy it with a hammer or by soaking it in water, advised Brian Byrne of Geeks on Call in Virginia Beach.

Create new habits for organizing and storing things by devising a system that flows with your natural thought process- perhaps according to function, subject, color-coding or alphabetical order, Watson said.

Designate a place for keys, wallets, mobile phones and purses that's practical, manageable and neatly contained. Deal with mail immediately, feeding the junk to a heavy-duty cross-shredder and assigning an in box for daily access and files for bills to pay and pending items.

"Getting organized is really a lifestyle," according to Jennifer Ford Berry, professional organizer and best-selling author of the "Organize Now" series.

Berry described it as an "inside-out process" based on "L.I.V.E.," her acronym for "List"ing goals, schedules and tasks; assessing the "Internal environment" of stressors and negative thinking that present obstacles; creating a new "Vision" of the life one desires; and arranging the "External environment" to align with these ideals.

Paper "is everybody's worst nightmare," Berry said, because it's "going to show up at the house, every single day, without being invited.

Throughout the home start by organizing the space that's "causing you the most stress," Berry advised, but don't underestimate the importance of the bedroom, which should be a sanctuary."

Insist that children who've left home remove their belongings by a deadline; resolve not to keep more than one bin of mementoes per child, she added.

And then there's that black hole of disorganization: the garage.

"It's the largest room in the home, yet people treat it like an over-sized junk drawer," said Jaime Dietenhofer, co-founder of GarageEnvy.com. Establish "the functionality of the space," take measurements and draw a plan, he recommended. Utilize ceiling space, cabinetry and PVC slat-wall systems for storing sporting goods, tools, yard equipment and more. Consider features such as motorized garage door screens, thermostatic fans for temperature control. Folks can increase garage parking, too, without changing the home's footprint by adding subterranean space or lifts to the ceiling.

Another way to control clutter? Don't let in the door, organizers urge. Maintain an organized home by changing shopping habits. Beware of "the high of the buy," Watson warned. Think twice before purchasing, and consider whether or not a new object will be worth the hours you've worked to pay for it. Realize that "savings is what you invest; it isn't what you didn't spend on an item that you purchased."

We tend to forget, Berry said, "that the stuff we acquire requires maintenance, responsibility and energy."

Don't waste resources caring for the meaningless, she advised. People who value time more than things can free themselves for the "stuff" of life: family, dreams, fun and meaningful goals.

 

Nora Firestone,nfirestone@verizon.net

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Comments need some "cleaning up" here . . .

Wow, I'm surprised at the insensitivity of some of these comments. The one about being a "cold-hearted hag" takes me aback most, especially considering the healthy rationale behind expecting adult children to eventually move their belongings out of their parents' homes with them. I love the idea of parents keeping one "special" box of mementos but establishing that if their children don't want the rest of their own belongings, why should the parents? I'm also offended, on behalf of my generous sources, by the pack rat comments. Whether or not you missed the part about her inheriting generations of her ancestors' belongings, I think it would be more appropriate to appreciate the fact that she opened her home & life for the benefit of readers

cold hearted old hag

Make sure your kids get their things out. My *** how much of a cold hearted old hag are you. My children home is their home for life and beyond, I id not raise my children to say get out. You are one sour apple.beware mothers and fathers who love your children and life memories. this old cold stone wants to ride you of your memories of a joy a nd love filled life, probably because she did not have one so she will strip everyone she an of theirs.

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This looks like a garage to me ...

This looks like a garage to me, not a living space. Notice the steps down? Is your garage perfect? Whose is?

You must have watched the same "Hoarders" I did......

I watched one the other day where the obese woman sat in the chair while her daughter cooked food on one burner with cockroaches running rampant, food, trash, you name it............literally everywhere in the house. The most unbelievable conditions that anyone could conceive of living in. Yeah, don't let it get that way....that photo speaks volumes of a pack rat mentality....I never realized how many people lived like such slobs before watching the show. Is this a sickness or sheer laziness?

Didn't realized I stated it was a garage......but.....

I was only commenting on the show "hoarders" because it looks like they have an issue in this (yeah looks like a garage to me) with keeping too many things. When you can't pull a car in your garage, its hoarding or an undisciplined person in need of organization. Sold my home, don't have one. Rehabbed my parents on a vacation one year up north and made it look like a commercial, but they have it semi full again, but its still very orgainized 9 years later. This pictured garage needs a lot more attention!

This looks like a garage to me ...

This looks like a garage to me, not a living space. Notice the steps down? Is your garage perfect? Whose is?

Garage

Yes, this is the garage. Her father had used it as an art studio in his lifetime. If I recall correctly, many of these items are here temporarily; they're from interior rooms and are either on the way out or being re-organized. The garage is in the process of being transformed into a usable space for the homeowner. Bless her heart; it's a big undertaking. I appreciate her willingness to share this process with my readers. Some of the other commentary to this article could use a good scrubbing, don't you think? ~Nora Firestone, author

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