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This fall, for the first time, Old Dominion University will offer dedicated on-campus housing for gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender students and their supporters.
ODU will be the third Virginia university to offer such housing, joining George Mason University and the University of Richmond. Elsewhere in the Southeast, only Duke University, in Durham, N.C., offers it.
The dedicated housing, called Lavender House, is intended to be a place where gay and lesbian students can feel safer and more accepted, ODU said in an announcement Thursday.
Charles Lowman, ODU's assistant director for housing and residence life, said Lavender House will build on efforts to match gay and lesbian students with roommates who will be comfortable with them.
"Having a dedicated residence space will make that matching easier, because Lavender House will be self-selecting," he said.
Lowman said having special living quarters doesn't mean gay and lesbian students are seeking to close themselves off from the rest of campus. Rather, he said, it will convey the message that the ODU community is open, welcoming and diverse.
"Any conversation we can start about this is helpful," said Kate Griffin, ODU's assistant director of new student and parent programs and chair of the university's Safe Space Committee. "Our goal is for ODU to be a leader in diversity in the Southeast."
Lavender House will be housed within an existing residence hall. The dedicated living quarters will meet a need identified by gay and lesbian students in a survey last spring, ODU said.
Other groups have appealed to the Office of Housing and Residence Life for dedicated housing spaces, and Army ROTC will have a reserved space this fall as well, the university said.
The Lavender House announcement comes at a time when gay rights and other social issues have assumed a high profile in the Virginia General Assembly. The news drew a range of reactions in Richmond.
Sen. Adam Ebbin, D-Alexandria, the only openly gay member of the Assembly, was glad to hear it.
"College can be a challenging and even dangerous place for students who are open about their orientation," he said. "Removing the pressure and the potential hostility from their living situation is desirable.
"Safety and a welcoming environment should be paramount in students' college experience."
Del. Bob Marshall, R-Prince William County, one of the Assembly's most outspoken social conservatives, called the move a wrongheaded distraction from the university's academic mission.
"Education requires discipline," he said. "When you don't invoke discipline, you're teaching that there are no limits on behavior.
"What does this have to do with academic excellence? This is adults capitulating their role as moral leaders in the community."
Del. Kenny Alexander, D-Norfolk, an ODU graduate whose district includes the campus, said he doesn't understand why Lavender House is needed.
"If there are incidents of violence, abuse or harassment of students because of their sexual orientation, then we should deal harshly with the perpetrators," he said. "I don't know if creating special housing addresses the problem, if there is a problem.
"It could even have an adverse effect, because you are now singling these students out. In my opinion, it's a form of discrimination."
So far, 18 students have signed up to live in Lavender House this fall. Students who are interested in applying for a room, or would like more information about Lavender House and the Safe Space Committee, can email safespace@odu.edu.
Bill Sizemore, 804-697-1560, bill.sizemore@pilotonline.com

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Great editorial today clarifying this issue
Many thanks to the Editorial Board at the Virginian-Pilot for their clarifying many things about ODU's Lavender House. Make sure you read their editorial to get a better understanding about the community before judging it based on the incomplete information provided by the Sizemore article.
http://hamptonroads.com/2012/02/welcome-floor-old-dominion
Thank you again Virginian-Pilot Editorial Board for helping to clear up the misconceptions!
Lavender House
I haven't decided yet whether this is a "safe space" or "separate but equal" housing for LGBT students. As it is not mandatory for LGBT students to live there and straight students are allowed to live there, I'm leaning toward the former.
What surprises me is how upset homophobes are about this. One would think they would be relieved that if an LGBT student is living in Lavender House, that student won't be assigned to be their or their children's roommates. Is it that they are voluntarily "segregating" instead of being forcibly separated?
Question
Since Gay activists compare gay discrimination to racial discrimination, I wonder if they would advocate a dorm for just Bstudents? How about an Asian dorm? Maybe a Latin dorm. Or would Puerto Ricans and Mexixans feel the need for their own separate lodging? Left handed people would want a dorm also. the question si, why this special treatment for those who say that their lifestyle is normal. Or is it?
Any student group or
Any student group or academic dept can propose their own themed community. You just need 12 students to get started. This year, only ROTC and Safe Space (the group that proposed the Lavender House) took advantage of the opportunity. You have to put together a proposal and explain how the community would support the academic mission of the University. More groups should take advantage of this program! Research shows that such communities (academic or social) are beneficial to student retention and persistence to graduation. Also, each approved community has to put on programming to enrich and educate the entire campus.
Check out the community's detailed proposal here: http://studentaffairs.odu.edu/safespace/lavenderhouse.shtml
Get informed...
Anyone who wants to see the full description of the community, its goals, and how it supports the academic mission of the University can view that information here.
http://studentaffairs.odu.edu/safespace/lavenderhouse.shtml
The Pilot and other news organizations could have done more research prior to publishing the story. This community is definitely not segregation. It welcomes everyone (straight, gay, and trans alike) and encourages everyone to just be themselves. They will put on campus programs to promote better understanding among everyone at ODU too. What a shame that all this information was not included in the story.
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Interesting idea; note other
Interesting idea; note other groups have applied for designated areas. Some potential problems; e.g., what if "straight" students voice the same concerns and ask for a "straight" area, which means "non-straights" could be identified as such and excluded. They could of course cite religious reasons and/or cultural reasons for their request to be separated from "non-straights". Muslims could ask for an area free of Jews, citing the same reasons and pointing out the current turmoil in the Mideast. If these requests are denied aren't the groups being discriminated against and, aren't there Federal laws against discrimination? Are/were Federal funds involved in the construction and operation of the dorms? What now? Fine ODU, recoup funds?
How do you test to find out if someone wanting into that dorm
is actually a LGBT member? With all of todays PC'ness what questions do you need to ask/answer? This, in MHO, is one of the most dividing, segragating, ideas I have heard of in quite some time. They want to be treated as equals only diffrent. They can't even pick a dorm name any less stereo typical of a LGBT individual than "Lavender". They actually will feel safer lock in there? Whats next every LGBT get their own security guard to escort them to and from class? If this flys what happens when the Muslims, Catholics, Jews, WASPS, Baptists, etc want to only live with their "own kind"? This whole world is getting crazier and crazier every day and 50% of the population just doesn't seem to see it. I can hardly wait to see whats next.