Copernicus Goes to Prison
It has been a long, difficult road but we are finally ready to take the next turn-Copernicus has been ordered to prison. Apparently, there was much we did not know before last Friday at the sentencing hearing, but knowing this young man as I have come to know him since that cold, rainy night back in October of 2009, there's always so much more to the story than was ever told by him.
Yes, Copernicus and his two friends robbed the Citgo on Military Highway and later, the 7-11 on Azalea Garden Road was robbed by them at knife-point.
But here's how things shook themselves out:
Copernicus and his sweetheart were rather desperate for cash since Copernicus had been fired form him job at a pizza restaurant right around the corner from the first target. Acting with his knowledge of the restaurants operation and perhaps with a little more malice towards the very person who fired him, Copernicus and his friends planned to rob him when he made his nightly deposit at a local bank. This manager arrived at the bank and apparently saw or heard one of the trio hiding, got back into his car and took off.
The plan was foiled.
So a backup target was chosen which turned out to be the Citgo. They pulled up around midnight, watched and waited for their opportunity to strike. Once the "beer rush" died off, once that happened, they ran into the store, seized the clerk, placed the knife to her neck and robbed her or approximately $60.00.
After leaving our three amigos realized that they hadn't stolen enough, they set their sights on the 7-11 and stormed it, robbing the store in the same manner as the first.
They were well-prepared for their adventure. They all had masks, latex gloves, black clothing and a rather large knife to wield. But apparently they had not taken every precaution-an outdoor video camera caught the image of a Ford Probe the Police Detectives believed was the getaway vehicle was captured. An inquiry to the DMV revealed that there are few on the road in Virginia anymore, fewer in Hampton Roads and even fewer still left in Norfolk. The Police found the car they were looking for, pressed the owner of it and he was the first one to crack, implicating the other two. Copernicus claims that the police broke in the door, threw them on the ground and held guns to their heads-the Detective told me no door was forced open, the love of Copernicus's life let them in and he was found hiding in a closet.
Not quite as dramatic as the version Copernicus tells, but I guess it makes him feel cool.
Miss Scarlett and I had a conundrum-what do we do about this? We have been to visit Copernicus and at every opportunity he has told us he's getting out at his next hearing and he's only going to get probation-the problem is he was ON probation already when these crimes took place, so I didn't think they'd give him a re-do, but on the other hand, Copernicus has demonstrated a Teflon-quality wherein he always seems to get away with the lightest slap on the wrist and then goes on to a more serious or brazen crime.
Miss Scarlett and I were of the opinion that the next stop on this train would be a murder-either one he committed or one in which he is the victim so one way or the other, we had to do something to bring this to a stop. If the system failed as it has so many times in the past, there wasn't anything we could do about that, but we thought that society needed to be protected from our son and our son needed to be protected, as much as is possible, from himself. Miss Scarlett and I talked, argued, bickered, pleaded and lobbied each other but finally came up with the solution I thought might alienate Copernicus from us for the rest of his life, but at the very least, he would HAVE the rest of his life to hate us-we reached out to the Norfolk Commonwealth Attorney's Office and asked them to hear what we had to say.
We exchanged e-mails with the Commonwealth Attorney handling the case and he was taken aback. He told us he has been called names, cussed, threatened, and taken to task by angry parents or family members, but in the 15 years he has served as a Commonwealth Attorney, he couldn't recall any defendants family offering testimony to help HIS case before.
Miss Scarlett and I sat down and wrote the Commonwealth Attorney a letter outlining the problems Copernicus has had since arriving here and how we were concerned that should things continue as they are, someone was certainly going to end up dying as a result of Copernicus's actions. We were of the opinion that a prison term of not less than 10 years but not more than 15 was appropriate.
We also cautioned them that they will see a very polite, respectful, contrite and apologetic young man with a beguiling personality-the exact same charms that he used to convince his friends to throw in with him that fateful night. But we also cautioned in our letter not to believe a word of what this boy had to say because we could point to any one of numerous times he would tell you what you wanted to hear to avoid punishment for himself. We warned that he could turn his tears on and off at will and would very likely use his now three children as an excuse for mercy-and that he has never done anything to help raise these boys, never sent child support, never taken much of an interest in them at all after they were conceived.
The Judge took his statement and as if comparing it side-by-side with our letter, tears? Check. Children? Check. Found the Lord? Check. Yea, these parents know their kid pretty well.
Copernicus didn't even give us anything new in his performance.
The Judge pointed out that he was very polite, respectful and apologetic now that he was standing there in handcuffs and shackles, but he wasn't so remorseful the night he committed this robbery and did the exact same thing within an hour of the first and that this crime called for a sentence that was well in excess of the guidelines.
Copernicus was handed a 22 year prison term, 12 suspended and good behavior from this moment until a period of 5 years after his release. As they led him from the courtroom, he couldn't or wouldn't look at his mother or myself which is just as well. I'm sorry that he hs to spend the rest of his 20's in a state pen but I sleep a lot better knowing he's off the street, our families are safe and Copernicus has yet another chance to turn his life in the right direction. He may come out of prison a changed man, he may come out a bitter one, he may come out hoping for vengeance against those he perceives as his tormentors who are responsible for putting him there in the first place-I just don't know.
Copernicus hasn't really been interested in visiting with his mother since being arrested nor has he been interested in much of anything else aside from calling his girlfriend who ran off to Pennsylvania to have another child that will be provided for by the taxpayers. His first son he hasn't seen/had contact with/supported since the baby was a few months old. His second son is now in the custody of the maternal grandmother and the third one is with the birth mother, but who knows if that will last?
Miss Scarlett is beign strong and I'm right here for her-she might break down at some point or, she might be so disgusted that she simply has no tears left to cry for this child anymore. I don't have and may never have the right answer but sometimes I forget that I don't have to have the right answer all the time-that's an unreasonable expectation I have of mysef. It's hard to watch her keep this inside, but as I am no one's parent, I just don't understand the child/parent bond just as people who cross that line into parenthood land no longer can relate to those of us who never had children.
It's a strange place to be, but this much I know:
Our lives are like a pebble dropped in a pond and the ripples go out in all directions. Copernicus has been like a boulder dropped in the same pond tsunami's are sent out in all directions. One of the character witness's who was on the stand advocating for one of Copernicus's co-defendants said that he "had fallen in with the wrong people." and I realized in that moment that one kid had run through this community and caused a lot of mayhem and a lot of hurt in the lives of people he didn't even know. Copernicus IS the "wrong people." Because of what he talked his friends into doing, lives would be changed, and not necessarily for the better, for many years to come.

A billion dollars is a LOT of money.
In spite of the massive amounts of smoke, flames and damage that occurred yesterday when the F-18 crashed off of Birdneck Road, this photo I took of the Virginia Beach City Hall building this morning is a reminder for today and the days to come when the debate will be raging that the Sun did come up the day after this accident and very probably will continue to do so.
I promise you, this photograph is NOT staged-this is the photo I took of this animal as I walked up to the trash can.
I cannot begin to tell you how many times I am asked to verify my identification in the course of a day, I was even required to show my I.D. in order to gain access to the campus of Hampton University on the day I took this photograph. However, I wasn't even approached by campus security when I was up the road at Christopher Newport University snapping photos there so I guess the reason I was carded at Hampton University and not Christopher Newport was because I'm white.
I was informed yesterday that my Neice's husband was in a Humvee that was hit with an I.E.D. (Improvised Explosive Device) and thanks to the improved armor, timing and dumb-luck, he escaped serious injury-this time. It's also worth noting that this isn't the first time he has been hit with an I.E.D., it is the fourth time-I asked my neice, "So, I hope you're not wasting your money playing the lottery, right?"

