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A criminal justice professor and her daughter, who police say were slain by a horrorcore rapper, were in counseling over the teenager's obsession with the macabre music, and the mother took her daughter to the concerts to keep an eye on her, a family friend said Wednesday.
Debra Kelley, 53, an associate professor at Longwood University, was hoping that Emma Niederbrock was just "going through a phase," said James F. Hodgson, a former colleague who had known Emma since she was about 1 year old. He said Kelley took her to horrorcore concerts, which feature artists who rhyme violent lyrics over hip-hop beats, in Michigan and Illinois.
"She's either going to go on her own or I go with her and make sure she's OK," Hodgson, a former police officer and now an associate criminal justice professor at Virginia State University, said of Kelley's reasoning. "She said that she needed to be there for her, and that she was going to grow out of this."
Kelley and Emma were found bludgeoned to death Friday at their Farmville home in central Virginia along with Kelley's estranged husband and Emma's father, the Rev. Mark Niederbrock, 50, and Emma's friend Melanie Wells, 18, of Inwood, W.Va.
Police have charged Emma's boyfriend, Richard "Sammy" McCroskey III, 20, of Castro Valley, Calif., with first-degree murder in Mark Niederbrock's death. McCroskey, who rapped under the name "Syko Sam," is also suspected in the other killings.
McCroskey and Emma, who went by "RagD0LL" online, appear to have met through the underground horrorcore scene. On Sept. 6, McCroskey flew to Virginia so they could attend a music festival together.
Authorities believe the killings occurred shortly after the group returned from the Sept. 12 concert in Southgate, Mich. The girls last logged onto their MySpace accounts Sept. 14. McCroskey was arrested Saturday at the Richmond airport while awaiting a flight back to California.
McCroskey's sister, Sarah, said her brother's friends told her that he and Emma had some kind of falling out at the concert.
Hodgson said Kelley, who specialized in violence against women but has taught classes in homicide, had been struggling since Emma got into horrorcore a couple of years ago. She and her husband separated about a year ago, and all three were in therapy "trying to move through this."
"Clearly, she was very upset with it and didn't necessarily approve of it," he said. "I mean short of locking them in their room or something and putting wires on the windows, I don't necessarily know what you do."
Hodgson said Kelley never mentioned McCroskey, but it was clear Emma was smitten with him. She had been sending McCroskey passionate messages on MySpace about hisimpending visit.
She was also looking forward to the Michigan festival, but complained in a post that her father, a Presbyterian minister, was coming along on the 16-hour drive.
Andres Shrim, owner of the horrorcore label Serial Killin Records, said it was not uncommon for parents to accompany their children to these concerts.
"I mean, her father being a pastor, that proves he was a true Christian man," said Shrim, who raps under the name SickTanicK the Soulless about killing Christians. "The Bible says, 'Judge not, lest ye be judged.' He knew that this was just entertainment. He may not have agreed with what statements we make, but that made him a good father. Because he was interested in being a part of his daughter's life and the things SHE was interested in."
Hodgson said Kelley had tried to keep tabs on Emma, even installing software on her computer to monitor the Web sites she visited. She had been home-schooling Emma for the past several years because of bullying and discipline issues in middle school, and some of Emma's postings talked about smoking marijuana and drinking alcohol.
Hodgson, who co-wrote a book on sexual violence with Kelley, acknowledged that people might find it strange that someone like Kelley would indulge such a fascination with music that glorifies rape, mutilation and murder. Kelley had been on paid leave this academic year to conduct research and had resigned from the university effective in May, school spokesman Dennis Sercombe said.
Students were shocked when they found that out two weeks before the semester began. Katie Austin, 21, of Portsmouth, said Kelley was a popular teacher who often hosted cookouts for students in Lambda Alpha Epsilon, a criminal justice fraternity Kelley helped form. She would occasionally bring Emma to class.
"I remember instances where she would talk about how she didn't understand some of the things that were going on with teens these days, and she could have been referring to Emma," Austin said.
Hodgson last saw Kelley and Emma about three weeks ago, when he and his daughter were driving through Farmville. He remembered joking with Emma about her pink hair. Like his friend, he hoped horrorcore was something she would get over.
"Back in the day, you grew your hair long and wore bell-bottom jeans and listened to rock 'n roll and who knows what else," he said. "Our parents thought it was the end of the world, and we were acting so damned crazy. But somehow we grew out of some of that and got jobs and moved on with our lives. I mean, some of us did."

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What happens when you wind a rubber band too tight?
I have yet to become a parent though with a niece, friends w/ kids, and having dated women with children, I have enough personal experience to truly tip my hat to those who REALLY put forth the adequate effort to give a little one a proper upbringing. With that said, I have one rebuttal, of sorts, to a comment previously stated.
One must be careful to be too consuming and judicial of your children. Mr. Shim's comment in the article is not off base in the sense that we should guide our children but not dictate them. If dictated too much, like in my case, that child will explode upon society when they have more independence. Meaning, when I left for college, I had sooo much fun that I almost derailed my true purpose for being in college.
Understanding something, like music, and what it's doing for your child will help you with where they are, where they've been, and where they're potentially going. Additionally, youth naturally attract themselves to things that parentals/adults say to stay away from. Don't think your a great, all encompassing parent...be one.
not really enabling
it really sounds like her parents were trying to do everything they could think of--home-schooling, monitoring web sites, supervising the concerts, going to counseling (was this why her mother wasn't teaching this year?)--and it's sad that it wasn't enough. they were probably afraid she'd take off and go anyway, or just run away.
i have to agree that i'd never allow some freak from the internet to come into my home...but maybe they were afraid she'd just meet with him behind their backs. the irony that the parents were a pastor and a criminal justice professor is just painful.
and uh,yeah, no one cares what shrim has to say. leave that moron out of it.
My wife and….
..I raised two little girls. They’re women now and on their own. Both are doing well.
When they were 16 there wouldn’t have been a 20 year old male visitor, especially if I’d have seen his Facebook page. There wouldn’t have been any of the ‘horrorcore’ recordings in the home. No pink hair. No trips to Michigan for ‘concerts’ by those ‘artists’.
As parents, that’s where we were.
I think that this article is
I think that this article is ignoring a more fundamental problem: Don't invite freaks off the Internet to your home.
Sure, "Horror core" music is a bit out there.. but people pay good money to go to horror movies all the time, and no one really complains. Add it to rap music, and now it's a pandemic that's killing our children.
To re-cap: music doesn't kill people, freaks from the internet do. Leave them on Myspace.
The parents did precicely the wrong thing
When actor Carol O'conner's son committed suicide due to his battle with drug abuse, he made a public service announcement where he stated (I paraphrase) "Do whatever it takes to get between your kid and drugs. Lock them up, tie them to a chair, whatever". And he was right. As long as they reside under your roof you are in charge. You are the parent. You are responsible. Period.
Anyone who thinks these parents did right by their daughter should ask themselves which is better: Strong and total intervention in her life, or the family being bludgeoned to death. The answer is amazingly simple. Get a restraining order, move to a different state, get new identities, monitor her 24/7, send her to a boarding school, whatever it takes. Oh, but that is sooooo harsh. Yeah, I guess being bludgeoned to death is the better option.
Tough love
sounds like the parents were incredible enablers to me. They and their daughter paid a price for it.
Here were the parents
So often the first thing people say is "where were the parents?" These parents WERE HERE doing what seems to be the right things given their circumstances.
No easy answers on this one.
These parents had lost, or
These parents had lost, or given up, control many years prior. Catering to ridiculous whims such as taking your child to horrorcore concerts is pathetic. This is analagous to saying I will let my child indulge in destructive behavior as long as I can be there to monitor it. Obviously, the parental monitoring did not work. The fact that the parents were a criminal justice professor and a minister is more than ironic.
This is very sad. There
This is very sad. There must be much more to the story.
Thank you very much Mr
Thank you very much Mr Hodgson for interviewing for this story, for sharing about Dr Kelley's private life. I have been sick over how she is being villified in the comments sections of the various articles about this tragedy. I am no Pollyanna, I am stunned at how judgemental people are, how dare they judge another without walking in their shoes!
I admire Dr Kelly and her husband in that they were trying to handle Emma's issues through family therapy as well as supporting her. As a mom, I can appreciate the hope that Emma would outgrow this phase, kudos to her for taking her to the concerts. As a mom, I can understand the fear that Emma would go to the concerts alone, Dr Kelley accompanied her, trying to ensure her safety. Many parents would simply push their child away.
Thank you Mr Hodgson for humanizing Dr Kelley, Im sorry the forum chatter has made it necessary.
May the family rest in peace, may Melanie's family cherish their memories with her.